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Hearing is not the same as understanding

Hearing is not the same as understanding

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Some time ago, I told participants in one of my workshops, that “hearing is not the same as understanding”. After that I got the feedback, that it would be better next time, to explain this sentence a bit more, because not everyone had understood this sentence. When I thought about this, I could of course understand it well and started looking for examples to clarify this sentence.
In this contribution I would like to take a closer look at the concepts of hearing and understanding and why these concepts do not mean the same thing.

To hear
Through our ears we can hear. Our brains process an enormous amount of sounds, tones, voices and music every day. A large part of this process is mostly unconscious. An example is the following: you are walking on the street and you are in thought or even talking to someone. Around you there is a lot of talking and sometimes shouting, but you don’t perceive this. Suddenly a sound strikes a chord within you, you don’t know why, because you haven’t understood anything yet, but your attention has been drawn. You hear the sound one more time and then suddenly it hits you: someone calls your name. You turn around and you see an acquaintance waving at you.
In this example, you have most likely heard or caught the sound of your name before you have understood it.

Another, perhaps slightly easier example: you are at a birthday party, lots of guests and background music. The hostess asks you if you want something to drink. You can hear and see that the hostess is telling you something, maybe even her body-language tells you that what she says is a question. But that’s it, because you don’t understand what she is saying.
Sometimes someone asks you “did you hear me?”, when he or she actually means “did you understand me?”

In short, we can hear and perceive, without understanding and comprehending what is being said.

To understand
Our brains are so smart that when we hear words as a child, in most cases we learn to understand those words and later complete sentences. That way we learn that a tree is a tree and a cow is a cow, that is how we learn language and later on writing. And even if we can hear badly or not at all, then there is the possibility to learn sign language by means of gestures. By means of (sign)language and writing, we humans can understand each other and communicate with each other.

Animals also communicate with us, in their own way and sometimes we can even understand them. Through practice and understanding, for example, we learn what our pets want from us humans (usually eating, drinking and/or going outside). Through this interaction, we can learn to understand them and communicate with them.
For example, I myself sometimes had whole dialogues with our cats who occasionally meowed back to me as if they understood and gave me answers.

We can understand each other not only by words, but also by gestures or body language. When my husband wakes me up in the morning, for example, he doesn’t have to say “I woke you up” or “you have to get up …”, because I have already understood and comprehended that.
By lip-reading, I can also understand things without actually hearing them, although a combination of both is of course still best.

In short: understanding is not the same as hearing, it’s much more than that.

With this brief, non-scientific explanation, I hope that you, dear readers, have understood what I have said – and written – even without hearing me.


Kommentare

Greg Rolfe

vor 3 Jahren #6

Psalms 19 1 The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands. 2 Day after day they pour forth speech; night after night they reveal knowledge. 3 They have no speech, they use no words; no sound is heard from them

Renee Iseli - Smits

vor 3 Jahren #5

@Fay Vietmeier Indeed, in our society people are more self-orientated and may have hardened their hearts or at least don't take the time to stop and listen to their hearts to feel, see and hear.

Fay Vietmeier

vor 3 Jahren #4

Renee Iseli - Smits Such a good explanation ... understood ;~) As I read it came to mind that Jesus often said "he who has ears let him hear" Hearing is at times of the heart ... not just the ears ;~) How often do we stop to consider that the condition of our heart affects our ability to see & hear? https://www.bebee.com/producer/@fay-vietmeier-pennsylvania/the-heart-of-the-matter-is-the-matter-of-the-heart

Fay Vietmeier

vor 3 Jahren #3

Zacharias \ud83d\udc1d Voulgaris MUCH ... much more ;~) What we say + how we say it What we did not say ... but really meant ;~) How often we have expectations but fail to express them in words ... that can be understood ;~)

Renee Iseli - Smits

vor 3 Jahren #2

Thank you 😊

Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris

vor 3 Jahren #1

Indeed, the sound (words) are but a single feature that makes up the signal of information we receive. We all need to be reminded sometimes that there is more to effective communication than just words. Cheers for the insightful article.

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